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kiran |
| From : |
lahore |
| Dated On : |
Wednesday, Nov 10, 2010 |
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Woman |
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asalam o alaikum...meri baat paki couzin say huay huway 2yrs ho chukay hain...v hav got comitted by da mutual consent of ourselves and our parents ...but now 2yrs hav pasd v havnot got married as yet ...the problem is dat v both fight very often .almost evry week and sometimes more than once in a week.. He doesnt gives respect to me or my family and says bad thngs when hes angry ...he has so many grudges against my family...i dont know how to handle him anymore...apki mudaaad ki bohat sakhat zarurat hai plz help me out ..this man is not a bad persn at heart ..he loves me a lot bt during fights he looses his temper and starts sayng REALLY UNBEARABLE things about me and my family...im very tensed ...plz help me out ..and tel me wat to do wat shud i recite |
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If some one does not have respect of elders and his fiance, it better to think on this relation ship, however we will pray for you |
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| Name : |
kiran |
| From : |
lahore |
| Dated On : |
Wednesday, Nov 10, 2010 |
| Question Type : |
Woman |
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asalam o alaikum..plz giv me some wazifa for my skin ...evry now and then i get pimples and darkspots al over ...secondly i want to get rid of unwantd facial hair so plz plz giv some wazaifa for it ... |
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check with Doctor and get treatment, try to remain with wudhu all time, keep your house clean, oftenly read Darood Pak |
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| Please helph me by giving a wazeefa that will help my husband change his mi... |
| Name : |
hina |
| From : |
USA |
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Friday, Jul 3, 2009 |
| Question Type : |
Woman |
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Assalamalaikum Mufti Sahib, I have few questions to ask.
1. I had been married 2 times, my 1st husband betrayed and married me, it was arranged since I believe that no body but the parents do the best for there children and my parents did tried there best. Then my second husband also told lie to my parents that he is an computer engineer student in USA where else he was 6th standard fail from village in india, my parents thought may be he is shy to speak in english in front of them and did not asked him. I got to know his educationlevel on my nikah night, I did thought why me although i was the obedient daughter of my parents. Now i am married for 10 years and have 2 boys mashallah. The problem is my husband does not understand that he needs to stand for his family, instead he make me stands. He don't understand that in USA he needs to learn english and learn computers and small things to grow up. Instead he wants a filmi life and he is very childish. He is in usa since 98 and i am since 05 and i have a better job and right now he is unemployed. He also curses and swears on me and my kids for everysingle thing. I have boys and certainly dont want them to grow up like this. Please helph me by giving a wazeefa that will help my husband change his mind towards his family and ability to learn as i see he has hardtime with it and as well that he turns towards islam. he also did not learn quran and don't know durrood or athahiyat to complete prayer despite my best efforts.
Mufti saab nothing offensive but i want to get control on my husband because i am tired of being the man of the house for past 4 years before was my father in law till he died in 2003 since then my husband was leaving a lawaaris life till i got here and started our house hold. some times he drinks. he also got charged for leaving my 6yr old son in a restaurant for 2 hours for doing his car wash. still no lesson. and he starts his each sentence with that i have no idea and that he is the senior. because of his illitration many men tried to take advantage of me. when my father tries to help us he does his disrespect and then ask me to ask money from my father. my father is very rich and i am not my father and mother keeps saying me sorry for my life since they did this but i tell them it is my destiny. but my other sisters are in good position.
i just want my husband to stand as a barrier for me and my kids. god knows that i have no bad intention but to get my kids a nice father and a loving caring and successfull husband. mufti saab i want to be behind my husband not be the husband.
please help me and also give me a recitation to get a better job for me and him naik tauffeeq and ability to learn and understand and make his mind sharp. i will do what ever it takes to make him successfull till the last breath left in me and after that even he leaves me dosen't matter because i am going to live my rest of the life under his name because he did save me when i was under depression because of my first marraige and gave be the best days of my life during our honey moon. but i still think i deserve more good life with him.
sorry for the long description but i had to sy it.
allah hafiz
jazakallah |
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ASA, Please try to change your Husband wisely, Be regular in Namaz, recite Holy Quran regularly, also pay attention to your Kids training, Read Darood shareef a lot, also teach your husband and children, After namza Isha every day, read 11 time Darood Shareef, 100 time Ya Wadoodu and then 11 time Darood shareef for 40 days or till your wish is fulfilled |
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