Asalam o alaikum Please answer my question at your earliest convenience.My daughters are completely out of control and my youngest one I think is possessed as there are few incidences which point towards that .They have stopped believing in Islam and are living in complete unislamic way .We are so distressed .I read Tahajud and am tired of praying for them .Please help me .
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Sorry to say, you might have done mistakes for their training, you had to create islamic atmosphere at your home, and you had to keep in your community, i dont know the age, if they are adult, you (Parents) have to present yourself as example, then you can train your kids with love and friendship, explained the islamic history, and quranic in your own language, try to read prayer regularly
Assalamu alaikum mufti sahab, I follow ahle sunnat ul jamaat ...
Assalamu alaikum mufti sahab, I follow ahle sunnat ul jamaat but few of my family members are getting strayed from this path and when I confront them, they ask for evidences for all the practices mentioned below.Can you please give me as many proofs as possible from quran and ahadees for the following questions :
1. evidence that muhammad rasoolallah sallalahu alaihi wa sallam was not a bashar, but noor and that he has ilm-e-ghaib (knowledge of unseen).
2. evidence of celebrating milad un nabi on one specific day (they say it should not be celebrated on one day, but year round).
3. evidence of shab-e-barat.
4. evidence of giving fateha on food
5. evidence of doing isaal-e-sawab on dead by praying, giving fateha on food and eating it and distributing food to poor, family and friends.
6.evidence of visiting graves.
7. evidence whether women are allowed to visit graves.
8. evidence of having a wasila and being under a BAYT of a wali/murshid
9. evidences of fatwas by ahle sunnatul jamaat scholars that we cannot offer prayers behind badmadhab imams.
I will surely appreciate your time and effort and Allah subhana hu ta"ala will give you ajar in helping us from straying from ahle sunnat ul jamaat path. JAZAKALLAH KHAIR.
SYED QUADRI
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Assalamu Alaikum, its big topic, please get the recorded lecture of Shaikhul Islam Dr. Tahirul Qadri from Minhajul Quran, you can also find books and literature on these topics from Minhajul Quran office Newjersey office , www.minhaj.org